Why I Eat Chocolate Cake
I eat chocolate cake because people assume I can’t, shouldn’t, or wouldn’t dare.
And that makes me smile.
I’m not vegetarian, vegan or paleo but I can’t tell you how many people hesitate before handing me a plate of food or offering me an alcoholic drink.
Clearly I have a reputation.
Health author, health and wellness coach, chocolate cake eater…can you spot the odd one out?
If you’ve ever done anything outside the norm you’ll notice how people look at you slightly strangely. A sideways, maybe-she’s-an-alien kinda glance.
Welcome to my world.
And I know a lot of people take medication to get rid of their symptoms. So they really can’t understand why I spent ten years rebuilding myself from serious illness, naturally, and with a lot of effort, because surely that’s what doctors are for??
D-I-Y or Die
Except my doctor had tried everything and it wasn’t working…so in what felt like a “D-I-Y or Die” moment, I decided to go it alone in an effort to keep breathing.
And it turns out – years later – that I’m pretty good at rebuilding myself and helping people. So I wrote a book to support others and built a life around being a healthy, energized forty-something.
Which is why the chocolate cake thing feels like a blip and people are shocked, should a slice of fudge finger slip between my lips.
They ask me for the recipe, knowing I avoided wheat, dairy, sugar, alcohol and caffeine for YEARS and at least three of those ingredients are usually found in chocolate cake (all five in a really good one!)
So they assume I’ve created a care-free cake full of goodness.
The chocolate cake I eat is usually loaded with all of the above. Deliberately.
It’s not eaten every day, or even every week. It’s not as part of a weight loss breakfast as some articles tout (seriously, we are women, not idiots!) And not as a love-replacement when things in my life aren’t as good as they could be.
Why I Eat Chocolate Cake
It’s just often enough to remind myself that amazing health is not about deprivation.
Amazing health comes from re-connection. From listening to your body and your symptoms, understanding what’s wrong in your life, (and therefore your health,) and re-balancing.
Amazing health and…ok I’m going out on a limb here…happiness, are about being able to have a little of what you fancy now and then, and not wiping yourself out for days because of it.
If you suffer from any kind of fatigue, blood sugar or hormonal problems you’ll know what I mean. In my darkest days of illness, a piece of chocolate cake would, quite literally, have floored me. My system was a volatile and unstable wreck.
Now I eat chocolate cake because I can.
And I never take a mouthful for granted because I worked hard to love my body this well and this whole.
Amazing health means reclaiming your body and all the juicy sexiness it holds, and creating a life you’re excited to live.
Amazing health is about pleasure and enjoyment. It’s re-discovering your vitality and your essence and having some fun while you’re at it.
For me, that entails a chunk of chocolate cake on the side as a flagrant dare to the doubters and dis-believers, who whisper…she’s super healthy, she’d never…
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I eat chocolate cake to remind myself of what’s possible.
I eat chocolate cake for all the women who can’t.
I eat chocolate cake for all my sisters still on the journey back to wellness and I hold their potential in every bite.
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